Stories

We’ve all got our reasons for being here.

For me, it was getting a call from my mom about 8 years ago, telling me she had a lump in one of her breasts. This was shortly after she had third of one of her lungs removed after being diagnosed with lung cancer. She never smoked. This was after she had her gall bladder removed and had some other issues with internal organs.

Of all of the ailments, this scared me the worst.

Thankfully, they caught it in time. She had a lumpectomy and thus far, there have been no signs of cancer. The rest of her health issues seem to be under control. She proudly wears a pink ribbon. She’s a survivor.

One of the worst things about the experience was feeling powerless, helpless to do anything. I was in Idaho, she was in California. I wasn’t able to fly home. But thankfully, she was OK.

I know that all the stories aren’t like this, that they don’t end the way we’d like them to. Putting this site together and helping organize a drive for awareness gives me that feeling of control I lacked 8 years ago. Knowing that the work we do here could give someone a chance at early detection… that’s part of our goal.

But with my mom’s diagnosis, I know I’m in the high-risk category. I’m going to need to rely on a low-cost mammogram since I don’t have insurance.

I don’t want this part of the site to be a downer, but instead a reminder of why we’re doing this. It’s not because pink armies are a gimmick; it’s because they draw attention to a cause and create awareness just by being on the board. They spark discussion, they get people thinking.

I’m not going to tell folks what to write, what not to write. I’m not going to tell them what to paint or play. For a lot people, this is a cathartic process. It’s personal; we all know someone.

Can we change the world? Probably not. But we can affect those around us. We can change our world. This is Day 1. We’ll see where this takes us.

~ Jen/bobaferret

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3 responses to “Stories

  1. Eldargod

    I’m so glad your mom is doing well. Thankfully no one in my family has developed breast cancer (knock on wood) but I have a wife, a mom, a grandmother, 3 daughters and a granddaughter. That’s a lot of girls for me to care about.

    Keep up the great work! My thoughts and prayers are with you…along with some really buff pink warriors!

  2. Devilsquid

    I’m honored and humbled by your website Jen.

    For me, my mother passed away when I was 16, 17 years ago, and to this day, it’s still has an impact on my life. With a wife and two daughters, I know it’s something that I’ll have to keep an eye out for in the future.

    I started the Legion of Everpink because I wanted a way to bring awareness of breast cancer and gaming together, and also for some personal healing. Both have been accomplished, and I look forward to the good we can do. Think Pink!

  3. Tom

    Hey Jen

    Love the website. I heard you on Iron Agenda. Never knew who was behind the bobaferret. I love the pink idea. After I saw Igors on Coolminiornot.com I thought that is the way to go, but now with this website and your ideas it means a lot more.

    A year ago my mother was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer. It was devastating news to our family, but together we stuck it out and she is recovery well. Surgery was enough to remove the tumor and some infected lymph nodes in the area. Its common knowledge that if the cancer spreads to the lymph nodes it has a direct line to the rest of the body. She was on the more severe edge as 5/12 were infected. She is doing better now as the psychological stress easily wears a person down. Her story and now learning of yours has given me the inspiration to paint most of my armies, privateer press and others, in the pink theme. Thank you for the website and your story…

    tommy gun

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